Date: 2008-06-23 20:47:18
Subject: Last chance
My husband left in april in a somewhat selfish way but he is an addict and no matter how many rehabs he goes to he can not make it. He has always read the bible and I believe in his heart he want's us to be a christian family and be together. He want's me and our twins who are seven to move to the state he is at where almost all his family is but I would have to leave my older son who just graduated from highschool here. He has a good job and want's to go to blinn. I hurt so much and pray to god but I can't hear him. The little ones miss there dad and they hurt. I think I should go and see what happens and go to church there also but I am afraid of the unknown. He has put our house up for sale and I think he has a buyer we have been married for ten years and he had the house before we were married. He still pay's the bills and gives me money what if this move he has made was really to save himself because unless he can and have god its the end for him. If I don't go I will never know. I have agood friend here and one sister that's it but my friend is wanting me to not go and get divorce. Everbody in my family who lives in another state also wants me to do what they want. I dont even know what is right. His family up there is praying that this works but here and in a whole different state they want it to end. Sometimes I just want to take my children and go live away from everyone because the to are hurting my heart. Just leaving my older child to try and save our marriage for the smaller children is hurting me. I don't want this situation it's to big for me I have no direction, no ansewers it's like I would like to stay in limbo and that's where I have been but now the house is sold where do my children and I go?
Date: 2008-06-16 01:30:06
Subject: Hope
I have never seen anything like this web site. It is hard to believe a church can have this much info and help on this subject. Thank you.
Date: 2008-06-13 13:55:19
Subject: in response to "going through separation"
I am so sorry for your struggle. It takes a lot of courage to tell someone you love that their addiction is destroying the family and to say you will not have that in your life anymore. But it is a good thing to do. If you need help - and I bet you could use it! - feel free to visit either the Divorce Care class, which helps you deal with the stresses of separation or divorce, or the Celebrate Recovery class, which helps you deal with your hurts, habits and hangups - it will help you gain strength to deal appropriately with others in your life who have them too. Blessings on you today! call the church office 979.696.1376 for more information on these classes!! Martha
Date: 2008-06-13 13:50:41
Subject: Dear "Stressed"
Another option is the Divorce Care Group which meets on Tuesday and Wednesday nights. You may find that just getting some help and support with how to manage your struggles as a single person and head of your household will help you cope. I went to the Financial Peace University class and it was great! Hope you will do that too. Call the church office for more information on any of these options: 979.696.1376
Date: 2008-06-07 10:24:34
Subject: Marital Struggles
In a marriage does God want you to try everything to heal your marriage before giving up? In my heart I feel for the children of your marriage he want's you to and also no mader what the situation when I think about it being over my heart hurts more then my mind. It is scarry and we both believe in god but are not giving 100% to a christian life. I have some very hard disicions to make even having to relocate to a different state because he has already done this and put our house up for sale. The kids and I are still here. My husband feels this is what we need because being with his family and going to church with them is what is making him heal. Is this what God want's?
